2008/10/17

INFPs

(there are 200 332 haiyus in Singapore.. they share the same personality as me.. so cool)
(BTW, right now, there is a male version of haiyu sitting right beside me.. he was named as---AlvinN) =/

(Plagiarism isn't a sin.. nvm la.. nvm la... reaneeeeeeee)

Their primary goal is to find out their meaning in life.


INFPs are highly intuitive about people. They rely heavily on their intuitions to guide them


Generally thoughtful and considerate, INFPs are good listeners and put people at ease. This sincerity is sensed by others, making the INFP a valued friend and confidante.
(see~~ this is so true about me :)


INFPs do not like conflict, and go to great lengths to avoid it. In conflict situations, INFPs place little importance on who is right and who is wrong.


They don't want to feel badly.
(NOBODY WANTS TO ) :(


In the face of their value system being threatened, INFPs can become aggressive defenders, fighting passionately for their cause.
(ya right, this girl can be an aggressive defender sia~~ roarrrr)


When it comes to the mundane details of life maintenance, INFPs are typically completely unaware of such things.
(i am sort of a person with simple needs... my dream car is just a double decker bus.. how simpler could it be huh?)
(HAIYUs ARE NO YY)


INFPs do not like to deal with hard facts and logic. Their focus on their feelings and the Human Condition makes it difficult for them to deal with impersonal judgment.
(This is so so so so so true... )


INFPs are usually talented writers.
(as they said... yap... that's what they said... not me~~)(the only thing that i said is: this is so true about me) XD :) o(n_n)o




INFP Relationships

They appear to be tranquil and peaceful to others, with simple desires.
They reserve their deepest love and caring for a select few who are closest to them.
Slow to trust others and cautious in the beginning of a relationship, an INFP will be fiercely loyal once they are committed.



INFP Weaknesses

May tend to be shy and reserved
Don't like to have their "space" invaded
Extreme dislike of conflict
Extreme dislike of criticism
Strong need to receive praise and positive affirmation
May react very emotionally to stressful situations
Have difficulty leaving a bad relationship
Have difficulty scolding or punishing others
Tend to be reserved about expressing their feelings
Perfectionistic tendancies may cause them to not give themselves enough credit
Tendency to blame themselves for problems, and hold everything on their own shoulders


INFPs as Lovers

INFPs feels tremendous loyalty and commitment to their relationships.
With the Feeling preference dominating their personality, harmony and warm feelings are central to the INFP's being.

They feel a need to be in a committed, loving relationship. If they are not involved in such a relationship, the INFP will be either actively searching for one, or creating one in their own minds.

However, the INFP's deeply-felt, sincere love for their mates and their intense dislike of conflict keeps the INFP loyal to their relationships, in spite of their troubles achieving peace of mind.


One real problem area for the INFP is their intensive dislike of conflict and criticism. They will tend to take any sort of criticism as a personal attack on their character, and will usually become irrational and emotional in such situations.
(YES!! i am super xiao xin yan!!!)

they will do whatever they can to get rid of the conflict - which frequently means lashing out irrationally at others, or using guilt manipulation to get their mates to give them the positive support that they crave.

This kind of behavior does not bode well for healthy, long-term relationships.
Individuals who recognize this tendency in themselves should work on their ability to take criticism objectively rather than personally.

In fact, the INFP is likely to not only respect their mate's perspectives and goals, but to support them with loyal firmness.
(sometimes, too much respect/freedom give isn't the wise choice at all)

Although cautious in the beginning, they become firmly loyal to their committed relationships, which are likely to last a lifetime. They take their relationships very seriously, and will put forth a great deal of effort into making them work.



INFPs are not naturally interested in administrative matters such as bill-paying and house-cleaning, but they can be very good at performing these tasks when they must.

They can be really good money managers when they apply themselves.
(this is surely NOT me)

INFP's natural partner is the ENFJ, or the ESFJ. The INFP/ENFJ combination is ideal, because it shares the Sensing way of peceiving, but the INFP/ESFJ combination is also a good match.


INFPs as Parents

INFPs are "natural" parents.

The INFP parent is likely to value their children as individuals, and to give them room for growth.
They will let the children have their own voice and place in the family.

Extremely loving and devoted parents, INFPs will fiercely protect and support their children. If there is an issue involving "taking sides", you can bet the INFP will always be loyal to their children.

INFPs are usually remembered by their children as loving, patient, devoted, and flexible parents.

(ha.. i am actually such a great mum.. okieeee... great to knw this :)


INFPs as Friends
LEEEEE, YOU BETTER READ THIS... THIS IS SO TRUE ABOUT ME!!!!

INFPs are warm and caring individuals who highly value authenticity and depth in their personal relationships!!!!!!!

They are usually quite perceptive about other people's feelings and motives, and are consequently able to get along with all sorts of different people!!!!


With their strong need for harmony and dislike of conflict, INFPs may feel threatened by people with strong Judging and Thinking preferences.
Although they're likely to be able to work well professionally with such individuals, they may have difficulty accepting or appreciating them on a personal level. They generally feel a kinship and affinity with other Feeling types.


INFPs will be valued by their confidantes as genuine, altruistic, deep, caring, original individuals!!

:)


read more about me?
http://personalitypage.com/INFP_rel.html

dozing off at 10:42:00 PM